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How To Share Romance In Your Relationship

by Codrut Turcanu

If someone asks you "What's the best thing about romance in
a relationship?",what would you answer? In my oppinion,the
best thing about romance in a relationship is that it is
shared. While one partner may initiate it, both end up
enjoying any romantic effort. Romance is a relationship
activity and cannot work if both partners aren't
participants.

When you decide that romance is the way you want to go in
order to improve your marriage or even work towards having
an outstanding marriage, start planning your romance in
advance with both you and your partner in mind. Even if you
are giving a gift to your partner, keep in mind how it will
affect you when you present it to him or her. i'm not
kidding,some gifts are actually meant for both of you
although it is presented to only one partner (ex. Massage
oil). Both of you must enjoy the romance in order for it to
be effective in your relationship.

While being romantic often draws to mind gifts and planning
outings together, you don't have to spend money in order to
be romantic! You can plan a day where you are completely at
your spouse's disposal. Devote yourself entirely to your
spouse for an entire day. He or she can ask you to do
chores, rub their feet, give them a massage, watch a movie
you normally wouldn't watch together or try an interest of
his or hers that you haven't tried. Your spouse may also
decide that you are best put to use in the bedroom!

When you want to do something extra special, take your
spouse on a local ‘honeymoon' trip! Find a local hotel that
has a honeymoon suite and book it for one night. Do it up
right and make sure it is stocked with champagne,
strawberries and whipped cream. Have flowers and your song
available to play in your room. For her, have new lingerie
laid out on the bed. For him, have new lingerie laid out on
the bed. For an extra special twist, pack a bag for your
spouse, hire a sitter if necessary and tell him or her that
you're going out for the evening. Blindfold your spouse and
lead him or her to your honeymoon suite.

Find an affordable card shop or see if your local greeting
card store offers any type of multiple card purchase
discounts. Buy as many cards for your spouse as you can.
Store the cards and send them to your spouse intermittently.
You can choose to send them every few months, every month,
every week, each day or every waking hour!

Take the time to create your own loving edible baked goods
for your spouse! Make heart shaped cookies, a heart shaped
cake or make your own heart shaped chocolates. Find a heart
shaped bowl, pop popcorn to serve in the bowl and spend the
entire day watching romantic movies together.

No matter which one of this ideas you will use for special
occasions,always remember that it doesn't really matter when
or how you do something romantic as long as you do it
together.

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